There’s a saying that good girls like bad guys. That simply is not true. Good girls, like all women, like a confident guy. However, bad guys usually are more confident than good guys.

When I say bad guys, I mean guys that are going to treat a woman badly. They’ll sleep around on her and take her for granted.

Women date these guys because they actual speak up. You’d be surprised at how many beautiful woman walk down the street and receive stares, but no offers for a date.

Bad guys speak up because they don’t fear rejection. You ever notice how you have more confidence when you’re meeting women on Spring Break or dealing with a woman you don’t even like? Your mentality is, “I don’t really care, I’m just here to have fun and have nothing to lose.” Bad guys treat every woman this way because they just see the next lay.

Good guys have their precious pride to lose. Good guys plan to take said woman on dates and treat her like a queen. No guy wants to approach a woman and get rejected. Accordingly, good guys don’t approach women out of fear of this possibility. This leads to a bunch of missed opportunities and more opportunities for bad guys.

This is not the way women want it. They want to find their prince charming; they don’t want a guy that only sees her as a sexual object. They want commitment, not someone they can’t trust. They want a good guy.

The first step to dating your dream woman is getting over the fear of rejection by understanding the second step: approaching her like a gentleman. Women sense the type of guy they’re dealing with based upon his approach. If a guy approaches her like a lady, she’ll turn him down like one, and if a guy approaches her like she’s a streetwalker, she’s going to be abrasive and hurt your feelings (as she should be). I approached many women in my dating days and NOT ONCE did a woman turn me down with an attitude. It’s all about speaking up and being a gentleman when you do so.