If you look around in the media today, you’ll notice a disproportionate amount of women that are … well … Trashy. I am a firm believer that men are really looking for a woman that is wholesome, beautiful, and intelligent. But if you look at the women that are seemingly omnipresent like Kim Kardashian, they only seem to have looks going for them.
Andre 3000 said that one day we’re going to have to go to a museum to see a lady. While this is a slight overstatement, it is not that far from the truth. Society has gotten to the point where we thinks looks and class are mutually exclusive. And they are far from it.
I’ve been around enough professional men to know the importance of marrying a LADY. A lady is a woman that you can take to a black-tie affair event. A lady is a woman that knows that simple never goes out of style. A lady is a woman that is supportive and stands by her man at his lowest points. A lady is a woman that realizes that it’s okay to be a freak, but only BEHIND CLOSED DOORS.
I’m fortunate enough to have found a lady that is beautiful, intelligent, and extremely wholesome. I know I’ll never find a woman like her and consequently, we went ring shopping yesterday. As I sat in the shop, I couldn’t help but think about how expensive things were. I then thought back to a speech that my boss gave the former day about how marrying his wife is the greatest investment he ever made.
And he’s completely right. There are plenty of Kim K’s that out there; women that are beautiful and go from one rich man to the next. But there’s something to be said about a woman that has depth to her. I’m talking about a woman with whom you can talk about politics; a woman that doesn’t need to pose in a magazine to know she’s beautiful; a woman who you’d never have to worry about messing with your friends.
There are plenty of benefits to marrying a woman with class: she can help you get a promotion/elected; she can help keep you grounded (women with class expect their man to be a gentleman at all times); she will be show your daughter how to be a lady and teach your sons how to treat a lady.
So while I may complain about having to put out a couple thousand for an engagement/wedding ring, I know that a lifetime of happiness is a great return on my investment.
funny…i remember hearing you found a woman like that before her. strange how our perspective as men changes after we lose a good one. i wish you guys the best.
I never take anonymous comments seriously because … well the poster is not man (or woman) enough to reveal themself.
But to waste my time and go to the merits of you’re argument, my perspective on what I’ve wanted in a woman has never changed. I’ve always dated “good girls.” But, the fact still remains that I’ve only been faithful to one woman in my lifetime and I’m dating her right now. There’s a reason for that. Part of it is maturity, the other part of it is actually finding someone that makes me happy.
I’m mature and secure enough to create a blog and profess to the world that I don’t cheat and I won’t cheat. I couldn’t say that in the past without being a liar and a hypocrite. I am a firm believer that there’s something wrong with your relationship if you have to cheat. So nomatter what I may have said in the past about any of my exes, my actions spoke louder than my words. A happy man won’t stray.
And just for the record, you’ve done a horrible job of being anonymous. The IP address is from Scoutmarketing.net. I also have a certain ex-girlfriend that works for Scout Marketing. You do the math.