I don’t watch porn. It really doesn’t interest me. Part of the reason why I don’t watch it is because it encourages behavior that many people emulate in real life. Some people get turned on by watching a film about a man sleeping with someone’s wife and the man sitting right there watching. Some disturbed people do this in real life. Many men take what they see porn stars do and try to emulate it in the bedroom. The vast majority of pornography is degrading to women, but yet people not only watch these films, but find it proper to do these things to their wife.
At least one guy has enough sense to know the difference (but not enough sense to stop watching porn period). In his article “Don’t Try This at Home – Stuff Guys Want in Their Porn, Not in Their Beds,” the author discusses acts that probably shouldn’t be tried at home. When he talks about fulfilling fantasies, he says
Take me. For some, sick reason, I love a porn involving a wife banging some other dude while her husband is fully in the know, or even in the room! Why? Because I’m insane! The husband’s just sitting there, and then there’s the wife being all “Oh this is sooo good,” clearly implying it’s better than what her husband offers.
For some reason, this porn scenario really turns me on. But the thought of real-life adultery freaks me out to no end. I don’t want another dude in the room! I also don’t want to sleep with someone’s wife. I’m not out to destroy lives. (Or have some creepy dude eyeball my johnson.) Really — even if I was offered a chance to sleep with a super-gorgeous woman who was married, and the husband was like, “Dude, dude, it’s totally cool. Seriously,” I couldn’t do it.
Unfortunately, there are still plenty of confused people out there that think that ejaculating on a woman’s face is making love. Not being able to distinguish between “acting” (or whatever you want to call porn) and real life harm relationships in two ways. 1) If you treat your significant other like a porn star, it means that you don’t respect her. If you don’t value someone, then there’s nothing to keep you from stepping out on them. 2) If your significant other refuses to be your porn star, then you very well may consult the services of someone that will let you [insert fetish].
Source: LemonDrop
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