We’ve recently heard about French President Nicholas Sarkozy who allegedly cheated on his wife and Jesse James who definitely cheated on Sandra Bullock. Both men have fathers that were known adulterers.
This shouldn’t come as a surprise as guys learn lots of behaviors from their fathers. This goes for domestic violence and cheating. Sons look up to their fathers and if they see their father doing something, they are going to think it is okay. Conversely, women may think that a man hitting them or cheating on them is acceptable if they see their mother being treated that way.
I am blessed to have a father that has never hit my mother and never cheated on her. I aspire to be just like him not only because I BELIEVE in monogamy, but because I want to set an example for my children.
That’s why I absolute love it when people talk about cheating being natural. We are a product of our upbringing. Something natural means that it would inevitably happen. Cheating is not inevitable. It happens if we become weak and allow it to. It happens when we have a culture that is tolerate that to that type of behavior. And it happens when we have generations of fraternization.
That’s why we see that the Manogamy Movement is only for real men. It takes a certain amount of responsibility to say that you are not going to cheat because you are going to be the leader and protector of your family. But if you are 100% about this, you likely will fall victim.
Source: Sarkozy
Source: James
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